Rabu, 20 Juni 2012

SCIENCE HERO: DR. FRANCE CORDOVA

SCIENCE HERO:
DR. FRANCE CORDOVA
by Barbara Field



Nobody knew that she’d become a rocket scientist, but France Córdova became that and much more. She is a leader in science and education, a wife, a mother and a visionary. An optimistic woman with a twinkle in her eye, France Córdova was the first Hispanic woman to lead a University of California campus as Chancellor at UC Riverside. She was also the youngest person and first woman to become the Chief Scientist at NASA. Currently, she is President of Purdue University. A writer before she was a scientist, the catalyst that set her off on a new career was the same: a desire to understand deeply, solve the mysteries, help humanity.

Her Childhood

Córdova was born in Paris. Expecting a boy whom they planned to name Frederick III, France’s mother sewed little Fs on all the baby’s clothes. Named Francoise, Córdova later shortened her name to France. The daughter of a Mexican father who attended West Point and worked in the U.S. State Department and a fifth generation Irish-American mother, France was the eldest of 12 children. She helped take care of her younger siblings from an early age and her sense of responsibility stayed with her for the rest of her life.
Córdova grew up in West Covina and went to a private Catholic high school. Boys and girls had separate classes and only five girls took physics. “The teachers didn’t think girls would go on to be scientists,” Córdova relates. She read a lot of Nancy Drew books and loved mysteries. “Science is full of mysteries,” she emphasizes.
Since being entranced at the age of 13 by the Bohr’s model of the atom in a World Book encyclopedia (“I thought I had never seen anything so elegant, so simple.”), she has reveled in the continuation of discovery. She says, “Every new understanding is a truth revealed, but never entirely true; that the search for truth is distinctly human; and that beauty, true beauty, is – in the words of Harold Bloom -- that which surprises well.” By her senior year in high school, Córdova was named one of California’s Ten Outstanding Youths.
Córdova remembers that Einstein intrigued her. She says,“Einstein overturned conventional thinking and imagined things from a different point of view. He was very creative.” Her favorite quote by Einstein later hung in her daughter’s room: “Gravity can not be held responsible for people falling in love.” But she didn’t set her sights on a career in science.
Córdova received her bachelor’s degree cum laude in English from Stanford University. She enjoyed Existentialist writers like Camus and Sartre. as well as Joyce and Eliot. During her junior year, she worked on an archaeological dig near a Zapotec Indian pueblo in Oaxaca, Mexico. Delving deeply into her Mexican heritage, she wrote a short novel and compiled recipes into a Mexican cookbook. From these endeavors, she won a national contest from Mademoiselle and a guest editorship, but her life was about to take a different course than the journalistic one she had planned for.

The Moon and Stars

After watching the news coverage of the Apollo 11 moon landing and then a documentary about cosmology, she became completely fascinated with space science. Córdova continued writing and editing articles as a staff member of the Los Angeles Times news service, but she was going to forge a career as a scientist. She earned her Ph.D. in Physics from the California Institute of Technology, one of only two women in a class of eighteen.



Astronaut Buzz Aldrin Salutes US Flag



As a young astronomer at Los Alamos National Labs in New Mexico, Córdova studied the stars. Pulsars, sometimes called the most exotic objects in the galaxy, are pulsating relics that remain in space after a supernova explodes. Córdova would become an expert in observational and experimental astrophysics, multispectral research on X-ray and gamma ray sources, and space-borne instrumentation. Her passion for science has not ceased.
She said, “We know that the universe emits not only invisible light, but also X-rays and gamma rays, sometimes in fits and bursts. I marvel at all these things, and I marvel more at the evolution of thinking and discovery that has led to our understanding. I think sometimes, there is nothing finer, nothing deeper, nothing truer, than to be connected to the tide of the universe. I am thrilled to analyze data, to write papers to try to explain nature, to further, a little, the collective knowledge about the universe."
Córdova became deputy group leader at Los Alamos National Labs in New Mexico and headed the Astrophysics Department at Pennsylvania State University. She took leave of absence from Penn State to become Chief Scientist at NASA, where she was the Administrator’s chief advisor. Córdova’s star rose again when she won NASA’s highest honor, the Distinguished Service Medal. She then became Professor of Physics and Vice Chancellor for Research at UC Santa Barbara.



Photo from Sally Ride Science Camp




Inspiring Girls
“When I went to school, teachers felt certain work was for boys. Girls didn’t go to grad school. If you went to college, you got married,” she states. Córdova is a current champion of “the need to prepare young people for careers in the sciences, especially women and minorities.” Role models are important, Córdova says, “just so you know that you’re not alone out there.”
She adds, “I try to give the example of my life. You can start in one area and make changes. Science is a lot of fun and you should also learn math. It’s like being a cosmic detective figuring out explanations for things not well understood; it gives you pleasure. I love puzzles, figuring things out.”
While not too keen on labeling groups all the time, she does want to change the culture of science itself “to root out that which discourages females from starting and continuing in the field.” She believes in women as agents of change, finding ways that they don’t feel isolated in the field and increasing mentoring opportunities and support groups for them.


Minorities in Science



“A lost battle is a battle one thinks one has lost.”




-- Jean-Paul Sartre
Córdova has not given up on increasing diversity in the sciences. “Underrepresented groups are not in the sciences because they weren’t exposed to it. They need an avenue for exposure, like through public TV. I’m an advocate of nature and science programs. It’s not continual pressure or sustained support alone. It’s the exposure from books and television, and events that get children on a research campus. Inspiration goes a long way.”
According to The Hispanic Outlook in Higher Education, Córdova, a diehard optimist, told Hispanic youth, “Reaching goals isn’t for pessimistic people. At all steps of my career, there was someone saying, “I wouldn’t do that. You’re too old, too young, too inexperienced. There are always naysayers.” Córdova encourages students to have the conviction and vision to stand by their dreams even in the face of adversity.

Pulsar


Photo from The Italian Pulsar group,











Encouraging Kids

How do you encourage kids to get more involved in science? Córdova wants “to improve the professional development of K-12 teachers, to widen the pipeline of people going into math and science teaching and to retain those teachers once we get them into the pipeline.“ Then of course, she wants to spark the fire in the kids.
“Science is so open ended and there are so many interesting careers with it. Backgrounds in policy can be directed towards the environment, social science interests lend themselves to teaching, careers in writing can be had in science. Look at the influence of Sally Ride, a famous astronaut, who is now writing for junior high students. Science is a rich base that allows you to go into many areas; you have a variety of options.”


What’s Next for Córdova?




We shall not cease from exploration, and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and know the place for the first time.




-- T. S. Eliot
The work — and the ensuing recognition — continues. She is the recipient of numerous awards and honors. She contributed to the PBS documentary Life Beyond Earth and was featured on the PBS Nova program, "BreakThrough: The Changing Face of Science in America.” This miniseries profiled the careers of minority scientists and engineers and was billed as a celebration of science. She was named one of 100 Most Influential Hispanics by Hispanic Business Magazine and one of “America’s 100 Brightest Scientists Under 40” by Science Digest magazine. Córdova continues to win accolades and serves as a member of many prestigious committees, councils and boards.
As Chancellor of UC Riverside (UCR), where nearly 70 percent of the students are members of a minority group, Córdova’s goal was to make the campus a leader among research universities. UCR developed an initiative, Project Copernicus, in conjunction with other partners and with the aid of an $11.5 million educational grant, to better prepare highly qualified science teachers in the state. She also was the key driver of a collaborative effort between UC and the Community College system to create a partnership that supports professional development, leadership training and research.
The accomplished scientist and leader in education, who met her husband while rock climbing, is still meeting challenges. With her two children grown up, Córdova has not ceased from exploration. “It’s still exciting to discover. Participating in that is a rare privilege as a human being.” 


http://myhero.com/go/hero.asp?hero=dr_france_cordova 
http://www.mmr.ucr.edu/resources/cordova/ 

Selasa, 19 Juni 2012

Beautiful of Al-hambra



































Cantiknya Al-hambra peninggalan zaman kegemilangan islam ni...
The photo you see a No. 11 gate where the last king fled Nazarita Boabdil.Un hug.
Boabdil, the last king NAZARITA

Study the biography and note carefully the main passages in the life of the last Muslim king of Granada, known among historians as Zogoibi or "unhappy" in his translation into Spanish, is looking onto one of the most convulsive moment in history kingdom of Granada. A time immersed in bloody civil wars, in which the various sides will vie for the throne of the last bastion of Islam in the peninsula, the kingdom's most beautiful and resplendent cult that existed on the skin of a bull. "

Son of King Abul Hassan Muley-do and the Sultana Aixa Horra-to-the honest, his real name was Muhammad or Abu Abdallah Abd Abdillah, which made the Christians Hispanicization Boabdil call. Castilian chronicles gave this monarch called King Boy, by some, having been declared too young, and others, to distinguish it from his uncle, named after him, Abdallah. Aixa rivalries and Soraya, one of the favorites of Abul Hassan, whose Christian name was Isabel de Solís, or burned in Granada encouraged the fierce struggle between the two sides, and Zegríes Abencerrajes, which took very active part Boabdil the male of the latter, who claimed to Aixa Sultana, which sought to bind the crown in the temples of his son, taking advantage of the setbacks suffered by Abul Hassan, to concoct conspiracies against him, who, after a popular uproar that occurred on this occasion, he locked in a tower of the Alhambra to the Sultana Aixa and her son Boabdil. It was not long a prisoner, as the maids of his mother down the tower through their veils, and Abencerrajes, who were waiting with horses in the slope of the ravine, from the time it's called Boy King, accompanied him first to the high Albayzín Guadix and then redo the block of his supporters, getting a few days after rioting in the city and causing bloody revolt that ended with the proclamation of Boabdil as Sultan of Granada. The fierce fighting that took place in the streets were arrested just before the news of the siege of Loja by Christians, who came to fight Abul Hassan after Boabdil covenant that each of them retain their respective positions and claims. The pact was violated by Boabdil influenced by his mother, who in the absence of his father, seized the Alhambra and the real authority.

Meanwhile invaded the territory of Malaga by the Christians, came to meet him Abul Hassan, accompanied by his brother Abdallah the Zagal, Venegas and the flower of his knights, completely defeating the Christian armies in the region of Axarquia. Boabdil jealous of the successes of the Zagal decidióse to emulate, it also urged by his mother, and in front of 1,500 soldiers, horses and 7,000 infants, as reflected in early chronicles began besieging the city of Lucena. But the besieged resisted and after reinforced with relief that could bring the Count of Cabra, broke the siege imposed on the town totally defeating and destroying the army commanded by Boabdil, who was taken prisoner. Meanwhile his father, Muley Abul Hassan-Do, again regained the throne of Granada, refusing to recognize and Aixa sending Cordova, where he had been transferred Boabdil, a solemn embassy to try to rescue her. Aceptáronla the Catholic Monarchs-seeking, as some argue, to encourage internal internecine strife in the kingdom of Granada, with the following conditions: "Boabdil promised to be faithful vassal of the kings of Spain, paying an annual tax of 12,000 doubles gold to release 300 captive Christians, for their land give way to the troops that were going to war against his father and his uncle Abul Hassan and the Zagal filed immediately in court as soon as called by the Kings of Castile. "

Moreover, they were laid by both sides for a truce of two years, and Boabdil took hostage up to the agreement, the person of his own son and his principal captains. Boabdil returned to Granada, on whose border it looked certain of its partial Aixa sent by producing its presence in the city because the expected result, proclaimed king by Abencerrajes, opposed this, Zegríes until, after two days of fierce fighting, the intervention of the principal chiefs meant that, as a compromise, Boabdil going to be accepted as king in Almeria with his supporters. This helped the Catholic Kings to go further the conquest of the kingdom of Granada, while, after his humiliating treaty with the King Catholic, Boabdil lost all its former prestige, with the intrigues and lavish her mother managed to preserve its adherents rather than flatter the people, as the rest of their compatriots is despised and rejected by the king's vassal Christian.

Old and blind Abul Hassan and removed to the fortress of Mondújar, abdicated in favor of his brother, the Zagal, dying soon afterwards. The abdication brought new and bitter clashes between the supporters of either suitor. Widespread unrest throughout the kingdom, the Zagal, acogióse under the Catholic Kings, who provided troops to regain the lost territories, especially in Almeria, bringing the warlord Abencerrajes again Granada, where fighting between the two sides lasted fifty days until, finally, it was agreed on division of the kingdom between the respective leaders, agreeing to both reside in Granada in the Alhambra, the Zagal, and the palace Albaycin, Boabdil, the Chico.

In the spring of 1486 continued the campaign against the kingdom of Granada the Catholic Monarchs, alerting D. Fernando Boabdil to which the dealings he had had with Zagal should be considered as a confederacy against Castile, which stopped the friendship that had mediated between them. Then the site became a Christian army to the city of Loja, belonging to Boabdil, who came to defend, being wounded in a battle fought in view of the square in which, due, had to take refuge with her in the palace of emir the village until it was seized by the assault May 26. In capitulations for the surrender Boabdil agreed to abdicate the throne and take the title of Duke or Marquis of Guadix, with manor of this town if it was won by six months or else lose the greatness of Castile and of constant war his uncle, Zagal. It was the news that he was the last of the covenants agreed to by him, she raised his hatred for his nephew, who sent emissaries to order poison. Discovered by these murderous intentions Boabdil, the emissaries sent by his uncle from the time promising a war without quarter, saying that its not aplacaría revenge "to see his head stuck in one of the gates of the Alhambra." Since then he went days without occurring in the streets and in the Vega of Granada bloody clashes between supporters of both sides, until news of the fence put up by Christian Velez Malaga scared to Granada, who stopped discord marching Zagal the relief of the square. Up and knowing his way back to Granada, which during his absence and once again supported by the rabble, Boabdil had taken over the Alhambra and other strengths of the town proclaiming one emir, the retiróse Zagal to Guadix, which Almería, asset and other people less important, although he remained faithful, then harass the Christian armies. Baza surrendered in December 1489, the Zagal sometióse to the Catholic Monarchs, news that brought dismay to Granada, which is full of fugitives and the crowd rioted, got up against Boabdil, who looked like causing the ruin of the people. Street riots in the city did not stop until they received the news that the armies of the Catholic Kings, who are supporters of the king had run to seek help, was to fell the Vega. Meanwhile, the Christian monarchs had intimidated Boabdil Fox's capital, as agreed in Loja, to change the title of Duke or Marquis de Guadix, who, however, opposed it because of strong resistance of his vassals, giving lead to renewed hostilities between the King of Granada and the Catholic Kings, who put the site to Grenada from Real de Santa Fe-where important events took place for national and universal history, which ultimately led to the conclusion of the chapter and Delivery of the city by Boabdil, which was consummated on January 2, 1492.

After the failure of Christians to the conditions specified in the Capitulaciones, Boabdil, initially continued to reside in the palaces of the Alhambra, taking away the path of the Alpujarras. Traditionally, beautiful but uncertain, that when you reach the point from which the city is still on the path of the Coast, soon after losing sight of a hill, to restrain his horse Boabdil, sighed, crying, and when his time was mother, Aixa sultana implacable, he led the famous apostrophe to say, "cries a woman does not know what to defend as a man", so now this site is known under the name Sigh of the Moor. What is really true, is that Boabdil retreated with his family to live in the town of Cobden-Laujar Andarax-place of his dominion, in the Alpujarras, until the vizier Aben Comix betrayed him allegedly selling without him I knew their heritage by 21 thousand castellanos of gold to the Catholic King, which in 1493 embarked in the town of Adra with his family-his wife, Moraima, had died and more than a thousand fans, exiles the North African city of Fez. In that city, as a prince until he lived in the jarifes and fight in defense of their relative Muley Ahmet Ibn Merini, died in the battle of the Vado Bacuna in 1527.

Miscellaneous Granada
C. Giron

Sumber :  ((Tmn2Syurga)) SELINGAN: EL AL-HAMBRA-GRANADA-ESPAÑA

Quotes : Tung Desem Waringin

" Dalam hidup ini, apapun yang terjadi tidak ada artinya; 
dan baru punya arti saat kita memberi arti "

Jadi dari setiap kejadian harus memberi manfaat terhadap diri kita
dengan membuat pertanyaan dan menjawabnya :

* Apa yang bisa saya syukuri atas kejadian ini
* Apa yang harus saya pelajari agar saya bisa lebih baik lagi.
* Apa yang harus saya lakukan sehingga membuat saya :
            + Merasa lebih baik
            + Menjadi lebih baik
            + Membuat orang banyak menjadi lebih baik
            + Dan direstui Tuhan

Di setiap kesulitan pasti ada kemudahan...

Kita tidak pernah dibebani sesuatu  melebihi kapasitas kita,
implikasinya...

Jika kita merasa semua terlalu berat..
kemungkinannya cuma dua ;
kita pasti bisa melewati beban itu atau
ada orang lain yang diskenariokan akan membantu kita.

Di setiap kesulitan pasti ada kemudahan...

KHUSYU'

Khusyu' adalah ketundukan mata hati 
atas keluasan bisikan 
dengan menyempurnakan penghormatan
dan kesadaran di bawah kemampuan menyingkap tabir
dan terhapusnya diri ketika dikalahkan oleh nampaknya Al-Haqq.

Khusyu' dalam shalat dibagi dalam 3 level :
Muhadlarah, Muraqabah, dan Musyahadah

a. Muhadlarah
    Berusaha menghadirkan diri dan potensinya 
    seperti gerakan tubuh, bacaan shalat, akal, hati dan emosinya.

b.  Muraqabah
     Seseorang sudah memasuki penghadiran diri 
     dan potensinya serta selalu diperhatikan  oleh Al Haqq.

c. Musyahadah
    Seseorang dalam menunaikan shalat sudah masuk wilayah bertemu dengan Al Haqq
    Merasakan manisnya berdialog dengan-Nya,
    menyaksikan keagungan-Nya,
   yang selanjutnya merasa fana' u bi al Haqq yakni hancur dan binasa dalam ke Maha 
   Agungan Al-Haqq sehingga kalimat yang diucapkan Allahu Akbar.

Ma'rifat = Maqam Qurrata Ayn dalam shalat 
Nabi SAW : 'Dan dijadikan penenang hatiku di waktu shalat.
artinya : Nabi ketika shalat malam menyaksikan keagungan Dzat yang disaksikan, 
karena merupakan keutamaan, rahmat, dan pemberian Allah.

Sumber : dalam buku " Tasawuf Irfani"
 




How to Friends and Influence People

1.Jangan menyerang orang

Jangan mengkritik orang
Jangan menghakimi orang
Jangan mengeluhkan seseorang, 

Bahkan jika memang salah sekalipun, 
karena akan menimbulkan permusuhan, perselisihan, percekcokan.
Sebaiknya kita mencoba memahami orang lain, mengapa mereka seperti itu.
Cara membangkitkan simpati, toleransi, dan juga solusi yang efektif.

2. Memberikan apa yang orang lain inginkan.

Berbagai macam keinginan seperti makan, tidur, harta, kekayaan, 
istirahat, jabatan, kekuasaan, kesenangan, dihargai dengan tulus.

JIka tidak mampu memberikan keinginan materi seseorang, maka 
memberikan antusiasme dan penghargaan yang tulus kepada orang lain
sudah cukup untuk membangun hubungan pertemanan yang berkualitas.

3. Berikan perhatian/ antusias pada lawan bicara bukan pada diri sendiri.

Ekspresi diri merupakan kebutuhan penting manusia
Keberhasilan kita mendengar ekspresi orang lain
membuka pintu hubungan pertemanan yang kuat,
" Mendengar untuk menang"


((Tmn2Syurga)) Pakailah Tudung Tutuplah Aurat

Saya ingin bercerita mengenai kisah adik saya, Nur Annisa, seorang gadis yang baru menginjak dewasa tetapi agak kasar dan suka berkelakuan seperti lelaki. Ketika usianya mencecah 17 tahun perkembangan tingkah lakunya benar-benar membimbangkan ibu.

Dia sering membawa teman-teman lelakinya pulang ke rumah. Situasi ini menyebabkan ibu tidak senang tambahan pula ibu merupakan guru al-Quran. Bagi mengelakkan pergaulan yang terlalu bebas, ibu telah meminta adik memakai tudung. Permintaan ibu itu ditolaknya sehingga seringkali berlaku pertengkaran- pertengkaran kecil antara mereka.

Pernah pada suatu masa, adik berkata dengan suara yang agak keras, "Cuba mama tengok, jiran-jiran kita pun ada yang anaknya pakai tudung, tapi perangainya sama je macam orang yang tak pakai tudung. Sampai kawan-kawan Annisa kat sekolah, yang pakai tudung pun selalu keluar dating dengan boyfriend diorang, pegang-pegang tangan. Ani ni, walaupun tak pakai tudung, tak pernah buat macam tu!"

Pada satu hari ada jiran yang baru pindah berhampiran rumah kami. Sebuah keluarga yang mempunyai enam orang anak yang masih kecil. Suaminya bernama Abu Khoiri, (nama sebenarnya siapa, tak dapat dipastikan). Saya mengenalinya sewaktu di masjid. Setelah beberapa lama mereka tinggal berhampiran rumah kami, timbul desas-desus mengenai isteri Abu Khoiri yang tidak pernah keluar rumah, hingga ada yang menggelarnya si buta, bisu dan tuli.

Perkara ini telah sampai ke pengetahuan adik.

Dia bertanya kepada saya, "Abang, betul ke orang yang baru pindah itu, isterinya buta, bisu dan tuli?" Lalu saya menjawab sambil lewa, "Kalau nak tau sangat, pergi rumah mereka, tanya sendiri". Rupa-rupanya adik mengambil serius kata-kata saya dan benar-benar pergi ke rumah Abu Khoiri. Sekembalinya dari rumah mereka, saya melihat perubahan yang benar-benar mendadak berlaku pada wajah adik. Wajahnya yang tak pernah muram atau lesu menjadi pucat lesi......entah apa yang dah berlaku?

Namun, selang dua hari kemudian, dia minta ibu buatkan tudung. Tudung yang labuh. Adik pakai baju labuh...... lengan panjang pula tu...saya sendiri jadi bingung..bingung campur syukur kepada Allah SWT kerana saya melihat perubahan yang ajaib..ya, saya katakan ajaib kerana dia berubah seratus peratus!

Tiada lagi anak-anak muda atau teman-teman wanitanya yang datang ke rumah hanya untuk bercakap perkara-perkara yang tidak tentu arah...saya lihat, dia banyak merenung, banyak baca majalah Islam (biasanya dia suka beli majalah hiburan), dan saya lihat ibadahnya pun melebihi saya sendiri...tak ketinggalan tahajudnya, baca Qur'annya, solat sunat nya..dan yang lebih menakjubkan lagi, bila kawan-kawan saya datang, dia menundukkan pandangan..Segala puji bagi Engkau wahai Allah, jerit hati saya..

Tidak lama kemudian, saya mendapat panggilan untuk bekerja di Kalimantan, kerja di satu perusahaan minyak CALTEX. Dua bulan saya bekerja di sana, saya mendapat khabar bahawa adik sakit tenat hingga ibu memanggil saya pulang ke rumah ( rumah saya di Madiun). Dalam perjalanan, saya tak henti-henti berdoa kepada Allah SWT agar adik diberi kesembuhan, hanya itu yang mampu saya usahakan.

Ketika saya sampai di rumah...didepan pintu sudah ramai orang...hati berdebar-debar, tak dapat ditahan..... saya berlari masuk ke dalam rumah...saya lihat ibu menangis...saya segera menghampiri ibu lantas memeluknya.. ......dalam esak tangisnya ibu memberitahu, "Dhi, adik boleh mengucapkan kalimat Syahadah diakhir hidupnya"..air mata ini tak dapat ditahan lagi...

Setelah selesai upacara pengkebumian dan lain-lainnya, saya masuk ke bilik adik. Saya lihat di atas mejanya terletak sebuah diari. Diari yang selalu adik tulis. Diari tempat adik menghabiskan waktunya sebelum tidur semasa hayatnya. Kemudian diari itu saya buka sehelai demi sehelai...hingga sampai pada satu halaman yang menguak misteri dan pertanyaan yang selalu timbul di hati ini. Perubahan yang terjadi ketika adik baru pulang dari rumah Abu Khoiri....disitu tertera soal jawab antara adik dan isteri jiran kami itu. Butirannya seperti ini: Soaljawab (saya lihat di lembaran itu terdapat banyak bekas airmata).

Annisa : Aku hairan, wajah wanita ini cerah dan bersinar seperti bidadari "Makcik..wajah makcik sangat muda dan cantik".

Isteri jiranku : Alhamdulillah. .sesungguhnya kecantikan itu datang dari lubuk hati.

Annisa : Tapi makcik kan dah ada anak enam..tapi masih kelihatan cantik ??

Isteri jiranku : Subhanallah. .sesungguhnya keindahan itu milik Allah SWT. Dan bila Allah SWT berkehendak. .siapakah yang boleh menolaknya?

Annisa: Mak Cik..selama ini ibu saya selalu menyuruh saya memakai tudung..tapi saya selalu menolak kerana saya rasa tak ada masalah kalau saya tak pakai tudung asalkan saya berkelakuan baik. Saya tengok, banyak wanita yang pakai tudung tapi kelakuannya melebihi kami yang tak pakai..sampaikan saya tak pernah rasa nak pakai tudung..pendapat makcik bagaimana ?

Isteri jiranku : Annisa, sesungguhnya Allah SWT menjadikan seluruh tubuh wanita ini perhiasan dari hujung rambut hingga hujung kaki, segala sesuatu dari tubuh kita yang terlihat oleh bukan muhrim kita semuanya akan dipertanggungjawabk an dihadapan Allah SWT nanti dan tudung adalah perlindungan untuk wanita ..

Annisa: Tapi yang saya tengok, banyak wanita bertudung yang kelakuannya tak elok..

Isteri jiranku : Tudung hanyalah kain, tapi hakikat atau makna disebalik tudung itu sendiri yang harus kita fahami...

Annisa : Apakah hakikat tudung ?

Isteri jiranku : Hakikat tudung adalah perlindungan zahir batin, lindungi mata kamu dari memandang lelaki yang bukan muhram kamu, lindungi lidah kamu dari mengumpat orang dan bercakap perkara yang sia-sia .. sentiasalah lazimi lidah dengan zikir kepada Allah SWT, lindungi telinga kamu dari mendengar perkara yang mengundang mudharat baik untuk dirimu mahupun masyarakat, lindungi hidungmu dari mencium segala yang berbau busuk, lindungi tangan-tangan kamu dari berbuat sesuatu yang tidak senonoh, lindungi kaki kamu dari melangkah menuju maksiat, lindungi fikiran kamu dari berfikir perkara yang mengundang syaitan untuk memperdayai nafsu kamu, lindungi hati kamu dari sesuatu selain Allah SWT, bila kamu sudah biasa, maka tudung yang kamu pakai akan menyinari hati kamu.. itulah hakikat tudung..

Annisa : Mak cik, sekarang saya sudah jelas tentang erti tudung... mudah mudahan saya mampu pakai tudung. Tapi, macam mana saya nak buat semua tu?

Isteri jiranku : Duhai Nisa, bila kamu memakai tudung, itulah kurniaan dan rahmat yang datang dari Allah SWT yang Maha Pemberi Rahmat , bila kamu mensyukuri rahmat itu, kamu akan diberi kekuatan untuk melaksanakan amalan-amalan 'tudung' hingga mencapai kesempurnaan yang diinginkan Allah SWT. Duhai Nisa...ingatlah akan satu hari dimana seluruh manusia akan dibangkitkan. .ketika ditiup sangkakala yang kedua, pada saat roh-roh manusia seperti anai-anai yang bertebaran dan dikumpulkan dalam satu padang yang tiada batas, yang tanahnya dari logam yang panas, tiada rumput mahupun tumbuhan, ketika tujuh matahari didekatkan di atas kepala kita namun keadaan gelap gelita, ketika seluruh manusia ketakutan, ketika ibu tidak mempedulikan anaknya, anak tidak mempedulikan ibunya, sanak-saudara tidak kenal satu sama lain lagi, antara satu sama lain boleh menjadi musuh lantaran satu kebaikan lebih berharga dari segala sesuatu yang ada di alam ini, ketika manusia berbaris dengan barisan yang panjang dan masing masing hanya mempedulikan nasib dirinya, dan pada saat itu ada yang berpeluh kerana rasa takut yang luar biasa hingga tenggelam dirinya akibat peluh yang banyak, dan bermacam macam rupa-rupa bentuk manusia yang tergantung amalannya, ada yang melihat ketika hidupnya namun buta ketika dibangkitkan, ada yang berbentuk seperti haiwan, ada yang berbentuk seperti syaitan, semuanya menangis..menangis kerana hari itu Allah SWT murka.. belum pernah Allah SWT murka sebelum dan sesudah hari itu. Hingga ribuan tahun manusia dibiarkan Allah SWT dipadang mahsyar yang panas membara hinggalah sampai ke Timbangan Mizan. Hari itulah dipanggil hari Hisab..Duhai Annisa, bila kita tidak berusaha untuk beramal pada hari ini, entah dengan apa nanti kita akan menjawab bila kita ditanya oleh Yang Maha Perkasa, Yang Maha Besar, Yang Maha Kuat, Yang Maha Agung. . . .Allah SWT. Sampai di sini sahaja kisah itu saya baca kerana di sini tulisannya terhenti dan saya lihat banyak titisan airmata yang jatuh dari pelupuk matanya..

Subhanallah ...

Saya selak halaman berikutnya dan saya lihat tertera tulisan kecil dibawah tulisan itu "Buta, tuli dan bisu.." wanita yang tidak pernah melihat lelaki selain muhrimnya, wanita yang tidak pernah mahu mendengar perkara yang dapat mengundang murka Allah SWT, wanita tidak pernah berbicara ghibah dan segala sesuatu yang mengundang dosa dan sia sia.. "Tak tahan airmata ini pun jatuh". Semoga Allah SWT menerima adikku disisinya.. Amin..Subhanallah

Saya harap cerita ini boleh menjadi iktibar bagi kita semua.

Wassalam...

**** Kopi & pes sbg peringatan & renungan..

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Doa Boleh Mengubah Takdir

Dalam sebuah hadits Nabi shollallahu 'alaih wa sallam menjelaskan bahwa taqdir 
yang Allah ta'aala telah tentukan bisa berubah. Dan faktor yang dapat mengubah 
taqdir ialah doa seseorang.   
 
Bersabda Rasulullah shollallahu 'alaih wa sallam: "Tidak ada yang dapat menolak 
taqdir (ketentuan) Allah Ta'ala selain do'a.   Dan Tidak ada yang dapat 
menambah (memperpanjang) umur seseorang selain (perbuatan) baik..." (HRTirmidzi 
2065)  
 
Subhanallah…!    Betapa luar biasa kedudukan do'a dalam ajaran Islam.   Dengan 
do'a seseorang bisa berharap bahwa taqdir yang Allah ta'aala tentukan atas 
dirinya berubah.   Hal ini merupakan sebuah berita gembira bagi siapapun yang 
selama ini merasa hidupnya hanya diwarnai penderitaan dari waktu ke waktu.   
Iaakan menjadi orang yang optimis.   Sebab keadaan hidupnya yang selama ini 
dirasakan hanya berisi kesengsaraan dapat berakhir dan berubah.    Asal ia 
tidak berputus asa dari rahmat Allah Ta'ala dan ia mahu bersungguh-sungguh 
meminta dengan do'a yang tulus kepada Allah ta'aala Yang Maha Berkuasa.   
"Katakanlah: "Hai hamba-hamba- Ku yang melampaui batas terhadap diri mereka 
sendiri, janganlah kamu berputus asa dari rahmat Allah.    Sesungguhnya Allah 
Ta'ala mengampuni dosa-dosa semuanya.   Sesungguhnya Dialah Yang Maha Pengampun 
lagi Maha Penyayang..   Dan kembalilah kamu kepada Tuhanmu, dan berserahdirilah 
kepada-Nya sebelum
 datang azab kepadamu kemudian kamu tidak dapat ditolong (lagi)." (QS Az-Zumar 
53-54)  
 
Demikianlah, hanya orang yang tetap berharap kepada Allah Ta'ala saja yang 
dapat bertahan menjalani kehidupan di dunia betapapun pahitnya taqdir yang ia 
jalani.   Ia akan senantiasa menanamkan dalam dirinya bahwa jika ia memohon 
kepada Allah Ta'ala dalam keadaan apapun, maka derita dan kesulitan yang ia 
hadapi sangat mungkin berakhir dan bahkan berubah.   Sebaliknya, orang yang 
tidak pernah kenal Allah ta'aala dengan sendirinya akan meninggalkan kebiasaan 
berdo'a dan memohon kepada Allah Ta'ala.   Ia akan terjatuh pada salah satu 
dari dua bentuk ekstrimitas..   Pertama, ia akan mudah berputus asa.   Atau 
kedua, ia akan lari kepada fihak lain untuk menjadi sandarannya demi merubah 
keadaan.   Padahal begitu ia bersandar kepada sesuatu selain Allah Ta'ala, 
termasuk bersandar kepada dirinya sendiri, maka pada saat itu pulalah Allah 
Ta'ala akan mengabaikan orang itu dan membiarkannya berjalan mengikuti situasi 
dan kondisi yang tersedia.  
 Sedangkan orang tersebut dinilai sebagai seorang yang mempersekutukan Allah 
Ta'ala dengan yang lain.   Berarti orang tersebut telah jatuh ke dalam kategori 
seorang musyrik...!
  
"Dan Tuhanmu berfirman, "Berdo`alah kepada-Ku, niscaya akan Ku perkenankan 
bagimu.   Sesungguhnya orang-orang yang menyombongkan diri dari menyembah-Ku 
akan masuk neraka Jahannam dalam keadaan hina dina." (QSAl-Mu'min 60)    Dan 
yang tidak kalah pentingnya bahwa seorang muslim tidak boleh pernah berhenti 
meminta kepadaNya, karena sikap demikian merupakan suatu kesombongan yang akan 
menjebloskannya ke dalam siksa Allah Ta'ala yang pedih.    
  
Maka Rasulullah shollallahu 'alaih wa sallam bersabda: "Barangsiapa tidak 
berdo'a kepada Allah Ta'ala, maka Allah Ta'ala murka kepadaNya." (HR Ahmad 
9342) 
  
Saudaraku, janganlah berputus asa dari rahmat Allah Ta'ala.   Bila anda merasa 
taqdir yang Allah Ta'ala tentukan bagi hidup anda tidak memuaskan, maka 
tengadahkanlah kedua tangan dan berdo'alah kepada Allah Ta'ala.    Allah Ta'ala 
Maha Mendengar dan Maha Berkuasa untuk mengubah taqdir anda.    Barangkali di 
antara do'a yang baik untuk diajukan sebagai bentuk harapan agar Allah Ta'ala 
mengubah taqdir ialah sebagai berikut: "Ya Allah, perbaikilah agamaku untukku 
yang mana ia merupakan penjaga perkaraku.   Perbaikilah duniaku yang di 
dalamnya terdapat kehidupanku.  Perbaikilah akhiratku untukku yang di dalamnya 
terdapat tempat kembaliku.   Jadikanlah hidupku sebagai tambahan untukku dalam 
setiap kebaikan, serta jadikanlah matiku sebagai istirahat untukku dari segala 
keburukan." (HR Muslim4897)  

Trs: ((Tmn2Syurga)) Doa Boleh Mengubah Takdir